Every so often, people will ask me something like, “What’s a good puppy schedule?” or “What should I expect in everyday life if I have a puppy?”
People are often surprised at A) how much puppies should sleep (a young puppy — 3 or 4 months — should be sleeping 18-20 hours a day. We keep them up longer, but it’s unnatural! They get worn out and manic, don’t learn as quickly and act up more! Think about babies and toddlers: they don’t want to sleep, but if we put them down they sleep anyway and they behave better. Puppies are the same) and B) how much time you spend playing with them.
This is my personal puppy schedule, when I either own or board a puppy. It might give you an idea of what life is like! This applies most to puppies 4 months and older; younger puppies need more frequent potty breaks, and less time out. Those “Tie her to you” moments should be “Back in the crate to nap” moments! Older puppies might get more freedom, if they’ve figured out not to chew and pee for the most part!
J
Ohhh, puppies. I’m boarding a puppy at the moment, a 9-month old welsh terrier who has some issues her owner needs help with. One of those issues is housebreaking.
I’ve forgotten what it’s like to get up EARLY because the puppy can’t hold it like my adult dogs can — 10 hours regularly overnight, and 12-16 if it’s my day off and I’m feeling really lazy! At 9 months, it’s possible for a puppy to hold it that long if you’ve worked on it. But a dog that isn’t housebroken and isn’t used to holding it — even an adult dog — can’t do that!
The best way to potty train any dog, regardless of age, is crate training. I know, I know — it’s MUCH easier to get puppy pads, if your dog will use them, and do it that way. And if you have a job where you work 8 hours and can’t get away, and no neighbor to let your puppy out after 4 hours, then that might be your only solution. However, puppy pads teach your dog something else: to pee in the house. It’s very common for a dog to look for the next thing closest to a puppy pad when you take the pads away: carpet. Small dogs are especially prone to peeing in the house when they don’t like it outside because it’s too cold or too wet. (Another option is to litter train them, so you never have to worry about it. Yes, they make litter boxes for small dogs!)
If you want your dog to potty outside, the best best best way is crate training. Let’s talk about crate training.
There are some common concerns I hear:
1. It seems cruel.
I know people have a hard time believing this, but a crate for a dog is like their den. Unless your dog has had some major trauma in a crate, and I mean major trauma, once they get used to it they’re not going to have any qualms about spending large amounts of time in one. Puppies especially should be sleeping 15-20 hours a day, depending on the age of the puppy. We keep our puppies awake MUCH longer than is healthy for them, assuming that’s normal. A crate gives your puppy a chance to calm down long enough to get the sleep they need in a quiet, dark, undisturbed place. This will make everyone’s life much easier, and your puppy happier, healthier, and easier to train!
2. My dog/puppy barks and whines and I CAN’T STAND IT!
Okay, I can’t blame you, there. I can’t stand it, either! There are two easy solutions, though, other than the usual “just ignore it and they’ll stop” solution you normally hear. (Trust me, I understand that frustration — I’m a dog trainer, and I can’t ignore it until it stops! I’m very noise sensitive, and it drives me bonkers!)
The first solution is to say, “Quiet,” and then tap the crate on the side. If it doesn’t work, tap a little harder. You can tap hard enough to jiggle the crate just a bit. (I’ve been known to hook the lip with my fingers and pluck the near edge off the ground by a finger’s width.) You’re creating a mini-earthquake, so the dog learns that barking or whining will make the world shake a tiny bit. It’s not comfortable!
Concerns: I have heard other trainers say, “This will make a dog feel unsafe or scared of his crate.” In ten years, I’ve never seen that happen.
The second solution is to get a squirt bottle. I don’t mean a little mister, I mean a bottle from Lowe’s that’s meant to have cleaner or something in it! Something with a powerful stream on it. This stream needs to get through the air, the bars of the crate, and hit your dog with enough force for your dog to feel it! A mist won’t do. You need a squirt! Don’t aim for your dogs face if you can avoid it; we don’t want to hit the eyes. And DON’T put anything but water in it!
Concerns: From trainers, I occasionally hear the same concern as above, and the answer is also the same! From owners, I hear: “But my dog LIKES water.” My dogs both LOVE water! They hate, however, the squirt bottle. There’s a big difference between getting into water willingly and getting squirted with something cold and wet surprisingly. It startles them out of their bad behavior, and that’s all we really want. Even dogs who aren’t particularly bothered by a squirt bottle will usually stop barking; it annoys them into good behavior!
Now that we’ve stopped the barking issue, let’s talk about making the crate an okay place to be. When I start crating dogs, I make sure they have at least two toys in their crate that they like. Every time they go in their crate, they get a treat. I feed them in their crates as well. I also put their bed in their crate (or piles of old towels, if you’re afraid they’ll chew up their bed out of boredom) so it’s comfy. Think of it as a kid’s bedroom: it needs all the stuff in it they might want so they can hang out and ignore their parents!
Once you have all that good stuff in their crate, start tossing treats in there. Leave the door open until they’re comfortable to go in, get the treats, sniff around for more, and come back out. You can give them more treats while they’re in there, too. Once they can do that, start closing the door for a few seconds at a time, giving them more treats while they’re in there. Once they can do that, start leaving them in there for a few minutes at a time. If they’re comfortable eating in there, give them dinner with the door closed and leave them in for ten minutes after they finish.
Build up the time slowly; when they get comfortable, add more time. It generally takes a day or two if you’re home all day and can devote time to it. If you aren’t, or if your dog has some trauma associated with crate training that needs to be overcome, it could take up to a week. I hate to say it, but usually if it takes longer than that, someone is letting them out when they cry — though the person may not even be aware of it!
All right, all that said… I’m going back to bed! All this getting up early to let the puppy out has worn me down!
(Not quite what you were looking for? Wondering how to potty train once Fido’s crate trained? Have no fear, just click here!)
Jenna
I can already tell I’m going to have a lot of titles with words like “Redux” in them. Oh boy.
One of my clients has a 8 month old puppy that doesn’t want to go potty outside. This is a moment when we have to out-stubborn our dogs. To tell you the truth, out-stubborning a dog is half of successful dog training. (The other half is knowing when to praise and when to correct.)
When you have a dog that is refusing to be housebroken, and the dog is crate trained, then this is what I recommend:
1. Take your dog out in the morning and ask it to go potty.
1a. It goes potty. Praise him or her and bring them inside for breakfast.
1b. It doesn’t go potty.
2. Take your dog back inside and put them back in the crate. Try again in half an hour. Eventually, your dog will decide it’s tired of crossing its legs, and it’s time to go potty outside — at which point, refer back to 1!
Most people go wrong because they feel bad about putting their puppy back in the crate. They feel like it “should” eat breakfast (it can eat in the crate), or it “should” come out to play. While I understand that we want our dogs to be able to stretch their legs and have fun before we leave for work, tell me which is better: a dog who, within a month, is allowed to romp around the house when people are home, playing and enjoying themselves with no one worried about accidents, or a dog who, a year into its life, is still restricted to one room, being on-leash, tied to a piece of furniture or left outside because it STILL isn’t housebroken?
Sometimes, being a good owner means a little bit of tough love. A few days of tough love can positively impact a dog for the rest of its life. And let’s be honest, here: the puppy isn’t going to be more than upset in passing at being put back in the crate. Then it’s going to chew on a toy or take a nap, and it isn’t going to feel bad. We might; we’re human. But for a moment, put aside your human tendencies and put the puppy in the crate. It’ll thank you when it’s older.
…No it won’t. But your family, friends, and everyone else who interacts with your dog will!
Jenna
It has been 24 hours since Cash went to the bathroom. Cash is a 2.5 year old king shepherd with a stubborn streak almost as wide as mine. We’re in a stalemate.
When people ask me how to get a dog to go potty in a specific point in the yard, the answer is always, “Pen them up, take them out to that specific place when it’s time to go, and if they don’t go, pen them back up.”
Well, watch as the dog trainer follows her own advice.
I live in an apartment building, and I would really like the dogs to go potty on the woodchips right under the stairs so I don’t have to take them way out at night. Lily has no problem with this. Cash, on the other hand, would rather pee in the ivy. He and I are now in stand-off mode.
Let me first tell you, I messed up. The other night I was leaving, and when he refused to go under the stairs I gave in and took him out to the ivy. Now, he thinks he can outwait me — it worked before! Yesterday afternoon around 2:00 I took them out to play. That was the last time he peed. After that I started taking them to the woodchips. When Lily goes potty there, I praise her enthusiastically and tell her she’s wonderful. (I think she thinks I’ve lost my mind, but that’s okay!) Cash looks at me, extremely unimpressed, and refuses to go.
That’s fine. I can wait him out.
I let him out last night. I let him out this morning. He’s been out every few hours. He’s still refusing. He did finally sniff where Lily peed, and I praised him for that, but otherwise he just looks mournful. That’s okay, too! He has a choice: it’s his choice to hold it and be mournful.
Sometimes, people ask me if it’s good for a dog to hold it this long. No! Of course not! But you know what would be worse? If I broke down, and tried again tomorrow, and once more he holds it for 24 hours. Better that he holds it for 30 now and then stops than have him hold it, regularly, for as long as he can.
Now, Cash isn’t penned up. My apartment is verrrrry small, so he really can’t sneak off to go pee somewhere, but if you’re doing this with your dog, it’s VERY IMPORTANT to make sure they can’t go off and relieve themselves in the house. You don’t want that habit to develop! Either pen them somewhere small enough they won’t soil it, or keep them with you at all time. I recommend putting a leash on them and just tying it to your belt; it only takes them a few minutes of you being distracted to go pee, after all.
Now, I think it’s time to take Cash back out. Cross your fingers that he’ll stop crossing his legs.
J